What is your inner child?
Your inner child refers to that part of you that is playful, curious, and filled with wonder. It represents the innocence, joy, and creativity that we often lose as we grow older. The inner child is a metaphorical concept that reminds us of the childlike qualities we possess deep within ourselves.
The Importance of Embracing Your Inner Child
As we age, we lose touch with that inner innocence, the fun spontaneity that comes so naturally to us when we are young. Society tells us to 'grow up' and 'act our age.' We abandon little parts of ourselves that make us who we are in exchange for societal expectations (be serious don't joke, be responsible don't be spontaneous, don't waste your time on silly things like games or cloud-watching, and so on).
Over time, we learn to suppress the special little things about us that make us who we are. The simple little things in life that bring us so much joy. We walk around stressed out, anxious, sad and feeling as if something is missing. That's because something is!
Embracing your inner child is crucial for your overall well-being and personal growth. When you reconnect with your inner child, you tap into a source of happiness and vitality that can greatly enhance your life.
Here are some reasons why embracing your inner child is important:
1. Rediscover joy:
Embracing your inner child allows you to reconnect with the simple pleasures and find joy in the little things in life.
2. Unleash creativity:
Your inner child is a wellspring of creativity. By embracing it, you unlock your imagination and tap into your artistic potential.
3. Enhance relationships:
Embracing your inner child can help you form deeper connections with others. It allows you to approach relationships with a sense of playfulness and spontaneity.
4. Reduce stress:
Connecting with your inner child can be a powerful stress reliever. It helps you let go of worries and responsibilities, even if just for a little while.
5. Boost self-confidence:
Embracing your inner child nurtures a sense of self-acceptance and self-love. It allows you to embrace your quirks and unique qualities.
If you've lost touch with your inner child, don't fear, read on for fun ways to reconnect and embrace your inner child!
20 ways to embrace your inner child:
1. Play games:
Engage in board games, video games, or outdoor games that bring out your playful side. Just play, in general!
2. Dance like nobody's watching:
Let loose and dance to your favorite music without worrying about judgment. Make up your own silly dance moves. Move your body with abandon!
3. Build a fort:
Create a cozy hideout using blankets and pillows, and spend time in your own little world. This is especially fun to do with kids or your significant other.
4. Engage in art:
Paint, draw, or engage in any form of art that allows you to express yourself freely. When we are kids, finger-painting and scribbling with crayons are our first forms or artwork. Try them again!
5. Have a movie marathon:
Watch your favorite childhood movies and relive the magic. Find your favorite childhood tv shows or movies, and make your favorite childhood snack to munch on while you watch it!
6. Play with toys:
Revisit your childhood toys or collect new ones that bring you joy. If you had a favorite toy, perhaps try to find it on amazon or ebay.
7. Explore nature:
I remember as a child I loved running through the hills and walking in nature, no destination in mind. Go for walks in the park, hike, or simply spend time in nature, appreciating its beauty. Pick a flower, blow a dandelion, watch the birds.
8. Indulge in nostalgia:
Look through old photo albums, listen to music from your childhood, or read your favorite childhood books. I actually have copies of my two favorite childhood books Where the Wild Things Are and The Velveteen Rabbit.
9. Play dress-up:
Put on costumes and play pretend, allowing your imagination to run wild. Impersonate your favorite singer/actor/actress. Sing in front of the mirror!
10. Blow bubbles:
Engage in the simple pleasure of blowing bubbles and watch them float away. If you are feeling extra energized, chase and pop them!
11. Go on a swing:
Visit a playground and enjoy the sensation of swinging back and forth. Did you have a favorite slide as a child? Play on the teeter totter.
12. Write a letter to your younger self:
Reflect on your journey and offer words of encouragement to your younger self. This could go hand-in-hand with journal writing.
13. Play with pets:
Spend time with animals and experience the joy they bring. Take your dog for a walk, if you have one. Cuddle your cat or other pet.
14. Try something new:
Step out of your comfort zone and engage in activities you've always wanted to try. Try a new art activity. Watch a new TV show or a movie from a genre you wouldn't normally try.
15. Build sandcastles:
Spend a day at the beach and let your inner child come out as you build sandcastles. If you aren't near the beach, find a fun mud puddle or mound of dirt and make mud pies!
16. Jump on a trampoline:
Feel the exhilaration of bouncing up and down on a trampoline. Just don't hurt yourself! If you are feeling really daring, trying a flip!
17. Sing out loud:
Belt out your favorite songs without worrying about being in tune. When I was a kid I loved singing my favorite songs, dancing around the room, and especially in front of the mirror. Plus, hearing an old favorite song will serve you a little bit of feel-good endorphins.
18. Play in the rain:
Dance, splash, and enjoy the freedom of being in the rain. Jump in the puddles. Make some mud soup. Don't worry about getting your clothes dirty!
19. Tell stories:
Let your imagination run wild and create stories to share with others. These can be ghost stories or just tall tales you make up. Take it a step further and write them down!
20. Celebrate milestones:
Acknowledge and celebrate your achievements, no matter how small, just like you would as a child. Remember how excited you got as a child? Jump up and down and cheer, squeal, be delighted!
Taking care of all aspects of yourself, including your inner child, is crucial for your overall well-being. By embracing your inner child, you tap into a wellspring of joy, creativity, and authenticity. It allows you to lead a more fulfilling and balanced life. So, take the time to nurture your inner child, indulge in playfulness, and embrace the wonders of life with a childlike curiosity.